1. Believe in your ability to cope.
~ embrace your strengths. Remind yourself that you can influence the outcome of events in your life. Create action plans to address problems at work and at home.
2. Learn relaxation exercises
~ try deep breathing, visualization and meditation. A hot bath, a walk in the park and stretching exercises are also good stress relievers.
3. Get a grip on guilt
~ guilt robs you of your energy and motivation. Be realistic about your expectations of yourself at home and on the job. It’s neither possible nor desirable to try to be a perfect person all the time.
4. Talk to a friend
~ talking about problems can help you blow off steam and give you the perspective you need to solve problems more easily.
5. Develop leisure activities
~ practice a craft, learn to play a musical instrument, join a local community or a weekly sport activity.
6. Establish a regular exercise routine
~ stress produces chemical that make you feel tense. Exercise helps move these chemicals through your body. Try to get at least 20 minutes of aerobic exercise 3 times a week. Choose a fun exercise you’ll enjoy and stick with it.
7. Get plenty of rest
~ most people need 7 or 8 hours of sleep a night to feel renewed and refreshed. If you have trouble sleeping, increase your exercise routine. Take a warm shower before bed.
8. Eat a balanced diet
~ stock up bread, cereal, rice and pasta. Include lots of fruits and vegetables in your diet. Add calcium, in the form of milk, yogurt and cheese and 2 or 3 serving per day of protein meat, poultry, fish, dry beans, eggs or nuts. Use fats, oils and sweets sparingly.
9. Stay connected and improve your communication skills
~ learn to ask for help when you need it. Defuse misunderstandings before they occur by talking things over with your family, friends and colleagues.
10. Learn to accept and adapt to change
~ change is a fact of life. Major work and life changes are common. Whether you welcome or dread these changes, they can all be extremely stressful unless you learn to adjust to them. Take time to recover, refocus and regenerate during a major change such as a promotion, relocation or job change.
Taken from The Yuppies, Lifestyle Guide Book- A Graduate’s Handbook_200